The “Hatred ” or I would say ” No Love”
08 Dec 2010 Leave a Comment
Often I say “ I hate my job …”…more often “ I hate my manager , he is a jerk “..Very frequently “ I hate my life..”; “I hate that person , look at him , he looks like a clown “ ..My best friend says “Hate” is a very hard word, and life itself is soo fragile why one has to hit it with “hard” feelings ? So inspired by him I try to use the mild words “Like”, “dislike “ , “no love “etc !!
I am never religious and also not an atheist ; It irritates me when in pain you curse god –“Why Me god?”…So selfish; when you are gifted with two normal legs , two normal eyes , two normal hands , two normal eyes , did you ask God “Why me God?”..So today’s article is to discuss the word “Hatred “..And before reading my artcle you should be aware of the fact “This is not about “mushy” ”I love you ” & “I hate you” things; I have enough articles about it !”
The common philosophy is as a day is divided into two portion : with light & without light ; same way your life is designed into two feelings :love & hate ; Love with bright light ; Hate with black darkness ;We find a handful of people who hates in two different ways ; one : when you have things but you don’t think they are appropriate for you ; you are too ambitious & aim for more ; You know the future is unpredictable but at least being the owner of your present you can love/hate it & plan for your “love” ly future ; two : When you friends / enemies have better things in life , and you like “the grass is greener on the other side” start hating what you have but others don’t have!
I always wondered what gave people the REASON to hate, and possibly I would find what reason they had to love as well. one does not hate another on the basis of static things, since nothing is static with humans. For instance, you would not hate someone because of their hair, but because they had a degenerative quality about them. Degenerative to their attractiveness and moral appearance. Then it MUST be the character in one’s self, but it brings up the question of WHAT form of character. I pondered this and found that, what you hate is the opposite of what you like, thus the opposite of your own traits would be of your loathing. Say, a bank robber is shooting and being shot at by a police officer, ignoring the job aspect and civil duties, both men’s character is why one became a bank robber and the other a policeman. Complete opposites of each other in the job sense as well.
Human beings have equal parts emotion (imagination) and rationality (left brain/right brain). The way we perceive our surroundings and the angle at which we are approaching a problem becomes evident in our decisions. For example: When you ‘give up’ on someone you may have done so for a variety of reasons – ‘they were too much work’, ‘you can’t help those who refuse to help themselves’, ‘if they aren’t willing to put forth any effort, why should I?’ and so on… All of these answers come from a selfish standpoint in some shape form or fashion and that is called “emotion “ ; the way your mind reacts to something –either positive or negative ; but it is the root of all .Emotion creates a perception in us ; perception , the way we see things . Take the robber & police officer example in a Hollywood action movie & take two people ; the guy loves action movies & the girl is attracted to the emotional side of life ; the guy loves action ; it gives Adrenaline Rush ,he thanks the police office after the officer shots down the robber ; on the other side the girl feels pathetic ;she curses God “why do you give so much poverty in this world ?Why does a person become so negative & becomes a robber? Why do you give another person the power to kill another ?” The hate & love work in opposite direction here.
There in no order of reaction to “love” & “hate”. There are two different kinds of “hate.” First, we have the irrational hate, which accomplishes nothing and is the result of ignorance. This hate is probably a product of anger and/or frustration. And on the other hand, we have the rational version of hate. When we understand something to be malicious to ourselves, or something essential to us, we tend to hate whatever that element may be. But we hate it for good reason. This hate is the product of love, and usually rational and responsible fear.
I will end this discussion with Mother Teresa ‘s quote “Love is a fruit in season at all times, and within reach of every hand. ” So spread love as much as possible because it is beautiful ; it makes you beautiful and at the same time you beautify someone else by sharing it ‘ and more that anything it is POSITIVE. Anything positive makes you more positive in life ; It makes you rich , famous & a HUMAN BEING ; remember POSITIVE is the brightness , positive is the daylight , positive is your EXISTENCE.
“Being unwanted, unloved, uncared for, forgotten by everybody, I think that is a much greater hunger, a much greater poverty than the person who has nothing to eat. “
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